12/28: I've been sick ever since we returned from visiting my family in Missouri. I didn't go to church services on Sunday or work on Monday. Granted I had already taken Monday off, but even if I hadn't, I would not have been able to go to work. Yucky stomach bug! So, Hyde leaves to go to gym and then on to work. He calls around 5 and asks what I'm doing. I tell him that I'm playing with ShortStuff. He says I guess you will go to work tomorrow. I said I really didn't know, I've been sick several times today. Hyde says he's sure I'll go to work. He then starts talking about how the only place he needs to go is to divorce court. He mentions that he's in a job he hates because that is all I will allow him to do. I say fine, quit. I don't care. Get a real job, a full time job, that you love. That would be great. I've been asking you to do that for over a year. He then starts in on the credit card debt and how he can't stand it and has to be out from under it now. I remind him that we are not getting any new debt. (Well, other than the transmission.) He said that's not good enough if we still have to pay Discover each month. I said well get a full time job so we can pay our bills faster. Or actually let me know how much money you bring home every two weeks and/or deposit that into the account I pay bills out of. He says it doesn't matter how much we make, I will still put us into debt and then he hangs up.
Today 12:29 (doo doo dooooo...those are horns in case you couldn't tell): This morning he starts in on me again about feeding ShortStuff. I tell him, just like I did yesterday, that if we don't have any place to go, ShortStuff doesn't like eating immediately upon getting up. Hyde says from now on we feed ShortStuff immediately. I reminded him that he's not involved in the morning routine...or the night routine for that matter and it really isn't fair for him to decide to dictate what works for us. He then talks about how I'm constantly irritated by him. Um, what? Reflect much of yourself onto me?
Oh, and a priceless little tidbit. Hyde takes ShortStuff to storytime this morning. He's telling me about it right before he left for the gym and work. He says there was this grandparent looking couple there with 3 kids. The grandfather figure obviously didn't want to be there and was talking on his cell phone the entire storytime. Hyde asks if I can believe anyone could be that rude and clueless. Oh, um, yeah, I have some idea of how rude people can be. I really need a head banging on the keyboard emoticon about now.
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